I really dislike it when people, guys especially, try and make you feel like an idiot. How come when I don’t do what you want me to do or I speak up for myself you have to argue with me and always be right? Why can’t you just let a girl be right for once? Why do you say that girls can’t be logical? Why can’t you talk to girls on the same level you talk to guys? Why do you have to try and make me feel guilty when I don’t do what you want me to do? Why, instead of saying, “your priorities aren’t right” can’t you say, “We missed you, hope you can come next time.” Or “We would love to have your input on this subject, if you could make it.”
I would love to be treated and spoken to as an equal. I know there are things that guys are better at than girls and vice versa, but the way you speak to me should be respectful, just as I should speak to you respectfully.
When you treat me this way it’s a good way to get me to rebel… I need guys in my life that are going to show me what to look for in a spouse, right now I’m being show what NOT to look for in a spouse, which I guess is good too.
My dear friends that are showing me what to look for positively in a spouse thank you. I appreciate you very much. You show me the strength and good characteristics to look for and show me the goodness in a Godly young man.
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